The past 5 days of have been quite the rollercoaster ride in a number of ways. It included packing up my life in South Africa, spending two days travelling to Taiwan and then settling into what will eventually be 2 weeks of quarantine in Taiwan. During this period I’ve made a number of interesting (well, to me at least) observations about life, travel and/or the world around me. I don’t claim that any of them are particularly unique, but in order to understand where I’m coming from, I want to use a seemingly obscure line from a movie (I’ve also included a clip from the film in question, ‘Along Came A Spider’):
Alex Cross: You do what you are Jezzie.
Jezzie Flannigan: You mean you are what you do.
Alex Cross: No, I mean, you do what you are. You’re born with a gift. If not that, then you get good at something along the way. And what you’re good at, you don’t take for granted. You don’t betray it.
Jezzie Flannigan: What if you do, betray your gift?
Alex Cross: Then you betray yourself. That’s a sad thing.
Along Came a Spider
The reason that this quote has stayed with my for so long, is that I’ve long felt that I’m a natural-born social scientist… that I studied sociology (after my qualifications in accounting and theology) because it helped me make sense of how I already saw the world. One of the ways that I (choose to) see the world, is by finding the fascinating in the apparently mundane. In my (not so) humble opinion, everyone’s story and/or experience contains something fascinating. I know some people have found my current adventure, and/or my previous 3-year sojourn beyond South Africa’s borders, fascinating, but my story isn’t all that unique (perhaps just rare in certain contexts).
While standing in the queue for the check-in at OR Tambo I met a young South African women travelling to the USA with her husband who’s from Kentucky, followed by a slightly longer conversation with South African guy who was frustrated by the current state of travel from SA because he’s been based in the middle east for a number of years and had been stuck without being able to return for at least month longer than he intended to stay. I also sat next to a Cuban woman on the flight, who had been to SA on a work-related trip (this was also a great opportunity to speak some Spanish again). While between flights in the airport in Istanbul I heard various languages being spoken including Spanish (some of which I understood), as well as others from different parts of the world.
But, it was a short conversation with a guy who was possibly around my age or younger that stood out. While waiting to board my second flight, he was seated with his family (wife and two kids) about 2 metres behind me and it was evident that he was switching between at least two language when speaking to his son, wife and/or other travellers. Having watched the so-called Millennium mini-series based on the Stieg Larsson many times (as well as other series/films), I correctly guessed that the one language was Swedish, but I couldn’t place the other, even though I thought I’d heard something like it before. It was Urdu, the official language of Pakistan. While he and his family lived in Sweden, they were travelling to visit relatives in Pakistan. We spoke briefly about our destinations, where we lived, the languages we spoke and other bits of small talk.
To a passer-by, and perhaps to you the reader, there is nothing particularly fascinating about this conversation, but I guess this says something about how I look at the world; finding the fascinating in the apparently mundane. There I was, a South African (who speaks some Spanish and is learning Chinese) moving to Taiwan, having a conversation (in English, thankfully) with a guy travelling from Sweden to Pakistan, after I’d heard him speaking both Urdu and Swedish moments earlier. Maybe it’s just me, but I find these interactions fascinating… and something worth writing about.
PS: At some point I’m probably going to have more to say about the idea behind the following line: “And what you’re good at, you don’t take for granted.”
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All the best for 2022 and to new chapters, enjoy the little chats and discussions life has with you, these encounters are invaluable ❤️
I will put along came a spider on the movie list, thanks for reminder.
Watching Manifest on Netflix I think for where you at and if you have time to kill in Quarantine check it out. ?